So this few months in the children’s lives without ex-to-be has been hard on us. We have been trying to find ways to pay back God for all of his blessings. The one thing that I have found that the children are like Diamonds. Follow me on this for a second Where are diamonds found? What are they worth? Here is my answers Children are found everywhere but that can only be truly reached by hard hard work. Children are worth every second that you put into them. In the end teaching them thing such as love, kindness and forgiveness will work magic and wonders beyond beliefs.
What I am talking about is the fact that at the start of this year I have made a list of goals. One of those goals to start my year was to find a way to do service ever day. Now have I been able to do so, no. My goal was harder than I though it would have been. But I have found out that sometimes things happen in the most amazing ways. I set out what I wanted to do to the universe, god, or however heard me. Shortly afterwards a friend and his wife were looking for someone to help with a bread run on Friday nights. We once a fortnight I get a load of bread dropped off for me to had out to others who might be doing life a little hard. Sometimes it is very hard to do as I am stepping outside our comfort zone. But we have been doing it for close to 2 months now and wow have I seen some amazing children who show compassion beyond anything I could have every hoped for. I tell it you is such a sight to behold when my children say lets try that house.
This last week I was really hit in the gut when a family report said I was a bad parent. I was just so shocked after all we do as a family this (beeping) person had to gall to say I am doing a bad job. Please the evidence says more that this stupid person ever could. I make sure school is attended and I continue what I have been doing for the last five years of keep in touch with my children’s teachers. Yet even though someone has not been doing it at all the last two terms. Yet I am the bad parent, stupid piss ant writer of the report. Now the attorney is going to have to really go on the attack. I was hoping that would not have to happen.
Well tonight I am going to also do some work on the about me side of my blog. I feel that expanding on this part is going to help the book a lot.
Yup I am shameless…..I will plug myself left right and center
Wow, I thought I have seen it before and I have even felt its icy stares. But this week I was shocked that I have been held in its icy cold grasp. The pain that it caused was very shocking and it came from a very unlikely source a Family Assessor for the family courts here in Australia. I was told that I should be able to Trust this person that our evidence is sound and that my reasons for leaving the way we did. Well much to my surprise even though I have been the primary carer for the children and for my Ex-to-be. Yet this woman cause I am trans has ignored all the facts and said that our children would be better off with a person who has not even taken an interest in our children’s schooling. Needless to say we will be fighting this and I will be seeking to find a way to point out this poor excuse of a person for who she really is. I just can’t believe that some of her lines in her report were so very bigoted and narrow minded. It just shocks me to the core.
If any of you readers know who to make a formal complaint that will make an Impact. Maybe even call this woman’s skills in to question let alone her practices as well. There is no room for person views and such unprofessional actions.
Wow did it really crush me. It was so very hurtful to think I trusted her. Wow it was like someone cut into my chest. I was just so hurt, I was so upset all it did was make me confused, angry and I even seconded guessed my own self. Lucky for me I have some really great friends who are my support network.
I have felt i9t at a local supermarket “Coles” who when I stood up and complained about how I was treated. They responded in such a way that I am pleased to say that they have even trained their staff better to0 make sure that it does not happen again and it has not Thank you Coles, I have even felt it once from some people, but I was not in the mood for them, so they got my double barrel of smart ass comment back. This is not a post what to say or how to defuse it.
Yup, I am a Trans-woman fighting the good fight for the children’s future. So I have been running in and out of problems that the Ex-to-be starts and gets away with. She thinks she is smart and she thinks that it is causing me hell. Well I can be honest I am saddened by the loss of a person who once could have replaced the stars in the nights sky. Now I have seen the true you, well staying with you would have been HELL. Though I think I have this also to say…..
But I was going to say the real hell is when you as a parent works real hard to get the dinner thought up and underway then when you taste it you are in heaven you have done it all perfect. Then the kids sit at the table ready to enjoy what you have created then BAM it was not designed for childrens taste buds and not a single one of them like it
Sorry it has been a couple of day but that is the way it is with kids. But lets look at what is going on first. We have been dealing with a solid brick of a human being lately. From not following orders to not calling our children then giving me a piss poor excuse and then thinking I would fluff it up to the children why she did not call them. How (BEEPing) hard is it to set an alarm on your phone to call the children on time. I hope she gets the point that I am no longer her Carer and I am not going to call her when she fumbles. Okay I am not going to rant on to much as it is not worth my time. Though I have had to tell Gabriel to watch his mouth when she said what he did when I told him about why she did not call “What a fucking liar”……. there is a lot of anger in him towards her. Most of it is due to her actions.
I have said in the past that that the US is a dangerous place to be in Transition. The Christian right is pulling a lot of purse strings. Take a look at the following news from Advocate.
Once again after you read that do you see why I am never going back, not even for a visit.
Sorry people if the post are a bit sluggish right now. The children come first.