The Pleb(cough…..Cough……cough)ite

I have voiced my thoughts on the HUGE waste of tax payer money called a plebiscite. Here is what I am asking you to do. Get angry tell your representative that you are not happy about this over S160+ million dollar waste of you tax payer money.

We have already started seeing the hate filled adds that are going to hit out screens and might cause trigger events. I ask you when you see one send a copy to your representative Let then know this was not how you wanted you money spent. If you hear about a person being harmed by this event stand up, don’t let it continue or you are just as bad as Pauline Hanson.

On a personal note please do share the Facebook junk that will come with it. I don’t want to see anything that has even one drop of hate in it. It will be the fastest way to get removed form my Friends list.


Oh no…

Well I am going to be up front and honest with my readers. The About me page that was going to be the book about my life has changed and will be cut back in size soon to a point that it might be more inline with the story that was put out for the Humans of Launceston. The reason I am doing this is I think enough people have said they would like to read my story when it comes out in a book.

With over 32 thousand words so far and the Desire to have it still be able to be sold. This might have to be done. So for what you can read right now and what will come out in the book will be a bit different as I have changed the formatting just a wee bit to make it flow a bit better.

My Goal is to have the book finished and ready to find a publisher by the end of October. The more and more I have toyed with the idea of the name, I am leaning towards the book being called “The Shadow of Ally” I would like to take the time and be thankful for all of the suggestions that have been sent. There were so many but the one I rejected as fast as I read it was “Aleana the story at the end of the rainbow”, sorry to say that just does not fit me. I might say the one friend who knows my Joke about the Token Tranny there is not a chance in hell I am going to use that as well, lol.

Though I will encourage people top enjoy the About me page at this current time. I will be changing it real soon. With much love, thank you for being my readers. I know the blog has taken a bit of a hit as well in posting but I had to put my efforts in writing to the book. I will be keeping the FAQ page and the new page Advice as I see these pages should be for everyone to help in case someone might need that information

Have a wonderful day!

The Book


I am just letting everyone know that soon the book Teaser will be coming to an end. I want to leave you looking forward to the book when it is done and I find a publisher. Though right now I am looking for a title and I am taking suggestions. The working Title is “The Shadow of Ally”. I am not 100% sold on this title and will be happy to change the final title once the book is ready to go with what ever sound best.

On the about me page there are a few colors. Soon those sections will be deleted and you will have to read the book even for those sections. So get in while the going is good. I am leaving out so much of the real Juicy stuff. Stories that will have you going OMG I never looked at her that way….

You join in on the book naming via the link below…..

Well things are taking off

the photo is in place after a struggle. Just reached 16000 word count on the “about me” page. Soon I hope by the end of the week be at 20k word count and the start of my second part of my book as well. A couple of friends are working on editing the about me page to help it flow a bit better. Please bare with the two color system as I am trying to add things as the editors are working away. Blue is the new stuff and black the old.

The site will be taking a bit of a different form as I am still working and flushing out of my book which will in part come from this site. The goal is to make it so others can learn from it and be educated about people just like me and in a way of kindness and hope.

I will be expanding on the FAQ’s soon as well. I want to add this in the book. I am going to add some of the links to websites that help out. It is about education and acceptance. Thank you for taking the time and being part of my dream.

About me updated again

2000 more words. I have added a bunch of stuff about my dad and mum. I also change my mind and add a few things about my sisters. I know that it is starting to come together so right now I am at 14,000 words.  It is really nice when the time I can allow myself to remember all the memories. Sorry no new photos on the About me page that will come as I find time to add them.

What make a Great friend?

Over the last year I have been faced with some wonderful experiences and a few ones that have been less than so. But each one has taught me what has become my wonderful friendship circle. I have also had two friendships that while not relationships felt like relationships when I chose to end them. It all came to a point when Gabriel asked me “What makes a great friend?”. I told him let me think on how to find the right answer for him. I came down to only a handful of examples in my life that I could point to.

When the youngest two went to bed I sat down with Gabriel. We talked a bit about my examples Nana Jackie, Rowan, Alan, Liam, and Graham. Then he asked “why are they though” We sat a little longer talking and drinking hot chocolate. I came to the simple yet solid answer Great friends are only made from good friends who give all and care more. So in a simple child’s eye he said “where is love?.

We talked a bit more about real love. What it meant to have it around in you for you and from you. We looked at a couple of people who have come into our lives and left due to they did not meet the guidelines I have for people around my children. We talked about how love grabs your heart and holds. It knows when to let go but never to far. It knows when you are hurt. It knows every little thing about you. It forgives your mistakes. It cheers you onward in your goals. It dusts you off when you fall over. Love is the feeling you get when I tell you that I love you with all my heart that I always have and always will.

We finished our drinks and then it happened he got up took our cups put them in the sink. Walked backs placed his ares around my neck and said “Thank you for being here for me, thank you for loving me”. I walked him to his bed, tucked him in and told him I loved him. I left him with tears rolling down my cheeks knowing that it got through to him.

There are times when you know you have done the right thing as a parent……

I learned something from his simple question “What makes a good friend?”. I am even still learning. Thanks Gabriel